I met this guy 2017 we dated and i fell pregnant 2010. He decided to pay lobola for me that year. Everything was good we were happy few years down the line , he started coming home late about 1 am. He started cheating on me and my parents wanted him to finalize the lobola and get married.
So he didn’t for 9 years and he was abusive emotionally and physically. Finally 2019 we got married and he’s still go out till am and still cheating. Now the problem is when i confront him about his actions he tells me to get out of his house. He’s always chasing me away and that i should leave his kids behind with him, and that’s what breaks me even more.
I really want out of this marriage but the thought of leaving my kids with is what keeps me here. When i start packing my bag he will take my car keys and stop me from going and he will apologies and tell me whatever i want to here. After forgiving him few days later it’s the same story again. After we got married he asked for the baby and I got pregnant hoping he’ll be happy and find the reason to be home, because he’s always out on weekends.
He doesn’t have time for his family. When I tell him how he wanted a baby and now he leave’s me at home alone, he told me to get rid of the baby if I don’t want it.
I love him but I’m tired of the way he treats me . I didn’t want to give up hoping he will change, but I can see he is not willing.
What should I do?
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