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I’m 36 years involved with a 41 year old guy. Our relationship is great in most areas. We are compatible with each other, we compliment each other well. Our relationship is fairly new. We are six months into it.
He has recently been talking about us getting married soon. He has been talking about marriage from the day we met. He is now pushing for it to happen. He is family oriented, he knows exactly what he wants in life. Which should be a good thing for me but I have a problem in the bedroom. His size is small. I just don’t know if I want to have that for the rest of my life. I don’t want to be unfaithful but it is so small that I can’t feel him.
I find myself masturbating after each round of sex without him noticing. He seems to be satisfied, he has said he is fulfilled sexually. I don’t know how to raise this subject without offending him. Even if I raise it, how will that help me as the size is natural and we can’t do anything about?
He was once married, his ex-wife cheated on him with 6 different guys. He has told me that his ex’s cheated on him. The last ex told him he has a small manhood and that no woman will ever be satisfied with it. So I am not sure whether he knows its a problem. Please advice. I really like this guy and I’d like to marry him, he is everything I have wished for in a man.
I’m confused. How do I handle this?
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